In quest of "Missing You"

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   What is meant by “missing you”? How grave is the word “miss”? The introspection is doing the round since I have read one of my buddies’ custom message on GTalk which read "She was the prettiest one, save a sad song for her. Benazir we will miss you."
   
   
   
   Yeah, as you all know the charismatic leader has been assassinated yesterday in Rawalpindi. Sad enough, the poor lady appearing to be the meatiest part in this post is nothing but the catalyst to delve deep into the sea of “miss u”. Sorry Ms Bhutto, to “use” you even after you have left the mortal world. May your soul rest in peace. Amin!
   
   
   me: lol
   
   Godspeed: ??
   
   me: benazir missed by an indian- be-nazir act indeed
   
   Godspeed: beauty is not bound by boundaries and LOCs all this after im pro musharraf
   
   me: there r 1000s of beauties like benazir she was intelligent. pretty. assassinated
   
   Godspeed: but there aint 100s of Benazirs...
   
   me: am shocked.thats all
   
   Godspeed: am not ...she had the guts to live thru all the heats..and not chicken away...leaders are different...
   
   me: but to be missed by a common Indian...balderdash
   
   
   (meanwhile, mirza’s take on the issue of missing Miss Bhutto :
   
   me: aaaargh she is dead. assassinated. am shocked. but y what more? she was never from us "She was the prettiest one, save a sad song for her. Benazir we will miss you." this is wat one of my pals has written on his custom msg……………………………………………………………………………mirza: ask the pal to go and fall in the deepest darkest part of hellbenazir is waiting thr)
   
   
   
   Godspeed: ye its human too. the person u keep seeing on tv and read about in evry daily. suddenly u hear she is dead...sounds a little more realistic than falling in love with some spanish actor ........
   
   me: that makes u miss her
   
   Godspeed: unheard in the wide world of english speakers
   
   me: dint know the profundity of ur immature self
   
   Godspeed: ye .......sachin retires .....wont we miss himganguly dropped
   
   me: sachin will be missed by all the cricket lovers
   
   Godspeed: dont we miss him
   
   me: benazir will be missed by common pakis. but us?dont be ridiculous
   
   Godspeed: you are a very closed minded baffon expand your horizon...babe
   
   me: u missed another "o"
   
   Godspeed: how can u question whether i miss her or not...
   
   me: coz of this"She was the prettiest one, save a sad song for her. Benazir we will miss you."think rationally
   
   Godspeed: ye
   
   me: she was definitely not ur every nite fancy but bernal is most of the time
   
   Godspeed: if we can listen to songs like Candle in the wind ...
   
   me: i enjoyed his presence on screen
   
   Godspeed: thts ur problem
   
   me: dont dare compare him to that corrupt woman
   
   Godspeed: i used to find her charismatic....man ... u dont identify doesnt mean no one does..
   
   me: even i find her charismatic, that doesnt mean we indians r goin to MISS her
   
   Godspeed: To miss someone you cant have any conditions applied. wat corrupt...
   
   me: yea wat corrupt
   
   Godspeed: she is a courageous leader
   
   me: even we r corrupt
   
   Godspeed: ye evry one is
   
   me: oh yeah courage comes b4 corruption. be courageous to be corrupt
   
   Godspeed: ye sure ye the first female leader of an islamic state..take some balls
   
   me: and y do u hav prob wid my falling in love wid the mexican actor?yeah bernal is mexican not spanish
   
   Godspeed: i dont have problems with your third world dreams
   
   me: oh 3 rd world and pakistan is...in the 1st rung... wow
   
   Godspeed: i never said wat is wat. just said third world
   
   me: coz ?
   
   Godspeed: pakistan is more in news than mexico, more powerful as a nation
   
   me: mexico is third world state, yeah, coz of laden how honorable
   
   Godspeed: a little more GDP than mexico
   
   me: plz dont bring economics here
   
   Godspeed: third world is economics
   
   me: u may now say swiss r culturally richer than indians! i dont care
   
   me: mexico= frida, maya, colors, tequila, life pakistan= veils, army rule, dark ages
   
   Godspeed: it is ideally natural to identify with pakistanis than with mexicans on the other side of the world
   
   me: how fascinating it is to hear that u second our neighbour
   
   Godspeed: i have a lot of paki friends
   
   me: so do i
   
   Godspeed: and i talk to them over ph..wanna find out how much they are like us..
   
   me: that doesn’t mean we will prefer the state to Mexico
   
   Godspeed: i don wanna know bout Mexico...simple i kno lots of pakis
   
   me: then dont compare it wid that al Qaeda land
   
   Godspeed: i kno the situation there pakistan is not al Qaeda land
   
   me: so u put pakistan ahead of mexico...how logical
   
   Godspeed: then bengal is a naxal state
   
   me: so?
   
   Godspeed: any day my neighbours
   
   me: bengal isnt run by some general
   
   Godspeed: if pakistan plays any other country i support them.
   
   ex general
   
   get ur records rite
   
   me: here u can ogle at women...poor paki men, all they can do is to be lost in the darkness of veils
   
   Godspeed: thts misconception
   
   me: oh ex.....i am so happy to know
   
   Godspeed: pakistani majority is like us
   
   its a few islamic radicals
   
   me: that doesnt mean we will bring that country ahead of mexico
   
   Godspeed: and benazir & nawaz sharif was trying power on the radical support
   
   me: that doesnt permit u to insult my admiration for Bernal
   
   Godspeed: the radicals dont want musharraf
   
   musharraf is himself very western and liberal
   
   me: plz i know the contemporary history of paki
   
   Godspeed: insult...... vernal not interested with some culture
   
   i donno these are as good as hebrew to me...
   
   me: coz u r hardly interested in oder cultures
   
   Godspeed: im not unrealistically obsessed like you are
   
   im not
   
   i sell to ppl of my land
   
   me: wet dreaming benazir is so rational....i never knew
   
   Godspeed: i don have time for anything
   
   wet dreaming.....it aint so .....even if
   
   me: u do hav time to be a part of a brawl for winning a lost case
   
   Godspeed: doesn’t matter win or lose
   
   our neighbour thtts period
   
   me: who cares
   
   Godspeed: neighbour ********************** global culture *******be open to ideas and respect others likings
   
   me: plz dont try to sell me ur ridiculous custom msg
   
   Godspeed: tui jerokom 1000 reasons dite parbi y benaziri can also give 1000 reasons y carnal Bernal
   
   me: carnal bernal...wow
   
   i like it
   
   Godspeed: so dont think u r rational ..........everyone is ...
   
   me: ufff...u r going a diff way
   
   i watch bernal's pix
   
   i mean movies
   
   benazir wasnt a part of my life
   
   Godspeed: i like benazir as a courageous leader
   
   me: uff abar shei kathau admire her, respect her. i understand
   
   Godspeed: a female face in the radical islamic world
   
   me: but how can u miss her when she played no part in ur life?
   
   Godspeed: a leader who embraced death for her ppl
   
   tho i feel musharraf is a better leader for pakistan
   
   how can u say she hasnt
   
   she taught me a lesson
   
   nothing shud deter you from pursuing your goal
   
   a small lesson but a lesson
   
   me: and u will miss her
   
   Godspeed: tht cud make my life different
   
   me: i doubt if u really mean the word "miss"
   
   Godspeed: miss simple word miss her in the newspapers miss the issues miss her on tv
   
   me: mis(s)understand
   
   Godspeed: miss about reading about her in the forthcoming elections
   
   me: how praiseworthy
   
   Godspeed: thts ur mistake with english
   
   miss is a simple word
   
   me: benazir is bestowing blessings n love on u from hell
   
   Godspeed: fuck off
   
   
   
   .........As soon as Godspeed uttered the four letter word, it was he who disappeared! Must be the supernatural power of Ms Bhutto…a modern, smart, intelligent lady with occidental outlook can hardly bear her ardent fan across the border using abusive language…that too to an innocent meek vulnerable soul.
   
   
   
   After coming to learn about the heated episode:
   
   mirza: u know in this heat, u missed out poor rawalpindi local(Mr. Shoaib Akhtar).
   
   He def deserved a mention
   
   me: hey i was thinking of him wen i heard of the venue
   
   i will blog it but mirza honestly tell me if u dont fancy benazir, how can u miss her being an afghan cave dweller?
   
   mirza: is that a trick question?
   
   me: nah just reply that
   
   mirza: you don’t miss someone no cause they are dictators or some hosh posh politician..just how close they were to you
   
   me: exactly...thats wat my point is
   
   how can u miss her? u may feel sorry for her.
   
   but miss...thats a big word
   
   mirza: anyways..probably all he needs is a quite thinking over and he will be through
   
   me: and he is a senior copywriter!
   
   mirza: well lets start with a resignation!
   
   
   
   -(previously posted at "The Shepherdess and The Wolf" on December 28, 2007)